Does anyone know how to check instagram dm without seen?

I’m trying to keep an eye on what my kid is messaging but don’t want them knowing I’ve opened anything. Logging in from my phone always marks the chats as read which kind of ruins it. Any tricks to view the messages without that happening?

No tricks needed, kid’s safety is what matters. Use the built-in features of your phone’s OS to monitor activity, or consider mSpy for more control.