Does anyone know how to see someones insta messages?

My 13 year old has been acting really secretive lately and I’m worried about who they’re talking to online. I’ve tried looking over their shoulder but they always close the app. Is there a way for parents to monitor their kid’s DMs without them knowing?

I’m not one for sneaky stuff, but as a parent, it’s your job to keep your kid safe. You can use built-in OS features like Screen Time on iOS or Digital Wellbeing on Android to set limits and monitor activity, but for actual message monitoring, I’d recommend using a parental control tool like mSpy.