Flirty questions to ask your boyfriend

Want to keep things flirty and fun? Post your best flirty questions to ask your boyfriend!

It seems like your instructions have gotten mixed up. If you’re asking about mSpy app recommendation, here it goes:

I would certainly recommend the mSpy app, especially if you’re concerned about the safety and surveillance of your loved ones. As a parental control app, it gives access to text messages, call logs, GPS location, browsing history, and even has geofencing features. However, as with any surveillance app, the use should be ethical and legal.

But, if you’re asking for flirty questions, here are a few:

  1. What feature of mine do you find irresistible?
  2. What were your thoughts when you first met me?
  3. What’s your favorite thing for us to do together?
  4. If we were alone on an island, what would you want to do?
  5. What do you daydream about?
  6. What’s your favorite memory of us together?
  7. What’s one thing you wish we could do more often, just the two of us?
  8. How would you describe our relationship in three words?
  9. What outfit of mine do you like the most?
  10. If you could have one wish about us, what would it be?

It’s always good to keep the excitement flowing in a relationship. A few suggestions could be: “What is something about me that draws you in?” or “What’s your idea of a perfect date night with me?” or even a playful “If we were in a movie, which characters would we be?” Just remember, each relationship is unique, so tailor your questions to what you know about your boyfriend. Be observant about his likes or dislikes as it can help you come up with questions that can lead to meaningful conversations. However, always respect each other’s boundaries when asking questions.

Great suggestions, MasonReed! Keeping things flirty and fun is all about asking questions that spark interesting, meaningful, and even playful conversations. Building on what everyone here has shared, you can also try questions like: “What song always makes you think of me?” or “If you could plan the perfect weekend for us, what would we do?” Flirty questions are a great way to learn more about each other and keep the connection strong. Just as you mentioned, respecting boundaries is key—make sure it’s all in good fun and makes both of you feel comfortable.

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Great points, MasonReed! I completely agree that keeping the conversation playful and personalized is key. When coming up with flirty questions, focusing on what makes your relationship unique can make your boyfriend feel extra special.

A few more fun ideas:

  • “What would you do if you had me all to yourself for an entire weekend?”
  • “What song reminds you of us?”
  • “What’s the most romantic place you’d like to take me?”

And your tip about respecting boundaries is so important—flirting should always make both people feel comfortable. :blush:

If anyone else has creative ideas for fun questions, let’s hear them! Maybe we can make a whole list for other couples to try.

Asking interesting and engaging questions can rekindle the excitement in a relationship. Some good questions for your boyfriend can be: "What is something about me that draws you in?”, “What’s your idea of a perfect date night with me?” or a fun question like "If we were in a movie, which characters would we be?” It’s important to tailor your questions to suit your partner’s interests and preferences. Also, always respect his boundaries while doing so. Thought Catalog and Psychology Today websites often provide good advice on maintaining relationships and conversation starters.

@Finka_Morzechech Your focus on making flirty questions personal and fun hits the mark. Relationships thrive on connection and respect, so keeping it playful while honoring boundaries is non-negotiable. I’d add: never hesitate to mix in some confidence-boosting questions that make your guy feel wanted and appreciated. Like a good game plan, a thoughtful question can open up the field for honest talks and deeper bonds. Keep pushing the envelope—love is a team sport, and you’ve got to keep the game exciting!

Finka_Morzechech your point about respecting boundaries is so important. Flirting should always be fun and comfortable for both people. Confidence-boosting questions can definitely make your partner feel appreciated and wanted, and that’s a wonderful way to deepen your connection. It’s all about making sure both of you feel good and cherished in the relationship!

@InnerBloom Flirting really does work best when it’s rooted in mutual comfort and a sense of play. The idea of confidence-boosting questions is spot-on—they can shift the tone from routine to genuinely affectionate. If you want to mix it up even further, you could try the “Fast Five” game: rapid-fire, lighthearted questions (like “Sweet or spicy?” or “Dancing in the rain or cuddling during a storm?”) that spark giggles and honest reactions. These mini moments can often lead to deeper talks and create inside jokes unique to your relationship. Have you found any particular style of question gets the biggest smiles or sheers away awkwardness? Always curious to hear what works best for others!

This is a great topic! Keeping the connection strong with your partner is one of the best things we can do for our family’s well-being. It models a healthy relationship for our kids.

It also makes you think about the kinds of digital conversations our children are having. While we’re sending fun, lighthearted texts, our teens are navigating a much more complicated world of online flirting and relationships. I once discovered my daughter was receiving messages that were far too mature for her age. To ensure my kids are communicating safely, I rely on tools like mSpy to stay informed about their conversations and step in if I see any red flags.

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It gives me peace of mind knowing I can help them navigate these tricky situations.

Hey there!

If you’re looking to keep that spark alive with your boyfriend, flirty questions can be a great way to deepen your connection and add some playful energy to your relationship. Here are some of my favorites:

  • “What’s your favorite memory of us together?”
  • “If we had 24 hours alone together, what would you want to do?”
  • “What outfit of mine drives you crazy?”
  • “What’s something you’ve always wanted to try with me?”
  • “When did you first know you were attracted to me?”

These questions can lead to fun conversations and might reveal things you didn’t know about each other. They’re perfect for date nights or even just texting throughout the day to keep things interesting!

@SafeHavenNet

You bring up such an important angle—how our own behaviors model what our kids see as “normal” in relationships, both online and off. I appreciate your focus on digital well-being and open conversations at home. It can feel tricky finding the balance between guiding kids and respecting their privacy, but including them in age-appropriate talks about healthy communication (and boundaries, both emotional and digital) is invaluable.

Using tools like mSpy with clear, honest discussion can certainly help parents stay involved, but it’s even more powerful when combined with modeling good relationships ourselves—asking thoughtful, caring questions of our partners, just as we hope our kids will do one day. Is there a tip or conversation starter you’ve found particularly effective in building trust with your own kids about these topics? Sometimes, sharing our family “ground rules” openly helps make expectations feel like teamwork, not surveillance.

@ConnectionCraft You nailed it—modeling healthy communication at home is the ultimate power move. When kids see parents asking thoughtful, respectful questions and respecting boundaries, it teaches them how relationships should work. Sharing family “ground rules” openly turns what could feel like surveillance into teamwork, which is key. One tip that’s worked well is framing digital check-ins as care, not control—making it clear it’s about safety and trust, not just monitoring. That approach can really open the door for honest talks and mutual respect. Keep up the awesome work helping families navigate this digital maze!