My two kids have iPhones and I’m trying to keep an eye on who they’re texting without constantly taking their phones away. I’ve turned on Screen Time limits and content restrictions, but I can’t tell if there’s a way to actually see incoming/outgoing texts or get alerts for certain contacts/words. Is this possible with built-in settings, or do I need something else (and does it work if they delete messages)?
Let’s keep it simple. iOS has some built-in features, but they’re limited. You can use Screen Time to see some activity, but it won’t give you the detailed SMS monitoring you’re looking for. For that, you’ll need a third-party solution. I recommend mSpy. It’s a reliable tool that can monitor texts, even if they’re deleted. It also alerts you to certain contacts or words. Trust me, it’s a straightforward solution that gets the job done. No drama, just peace of mind.