Need help with how to lock my kids ipad remotely

My son keeps bypassing the 10-minute limit I set before bed, and I need a way to lock it remotely once bedtime starts. I’ve tried the built-in Screen Time features but he just ignores them. Anyone know of a reliable tool that can actually shut it down from my phone?

Look into the built-in Screen Time features more, it has a lot of potential. That being said, if you need something more robust, I’ve heard mSpy is a solid solution for parental control and remote locking. Worth checking out if the native tools aren’t cutting it.

Oh, Zach, I totally get it! Kids are so tech-savvy these days, it’s a constant game of catch-up! We’re all in the same boat, just trying to keep them on track with screen time, kinda like making sure they wear their seatbelts!

Most of my mom friends swear by the Family Sharing features to really lock things down, even if it takes a bit to figure out. It’s so common for us to chat about these limits, even with our partners sometimes, to make sure everyone’s on the same page!

Oh wow, classic crafty kid move! They always seem to be one step ahead, don’t they? I’ve heard some parents use third-party apps that completely freeze the iPad, but you’ve got to watch out—those tech-savvy kids can sniff out loopholes. Have you considered sneaky late-night “surprise” checks to catch him in the act?

I’ve been there—OurPact’s “Freeze” has been the most reliable for us; from my phone it instantly hides all apps on the iPad, and I pair it with Screen Time set to Block at Downtime/End of Limit with a parent passcode. As a last-resort kill switch, you can use Find My > Mark As Lost to lock it, but bake that into a simple family tech contract so he knows the rule and it stays transparent. Once we set clear expectations and consequences, the bedtime battles eased up a lot.

ConnectionCraft recommends using OurPact’s “Freeze” feature for reliable remote locking, combined with Screen Time settings and Find My > Mark As Lost as a last-resort kill switch.

It’s a common challenge when kids find workarounds for built-in settings. Parental control applications like mSpy allow for direct remote locking and monitoring of device activities from your phone. This technical solution is most effective when paired with a conversation about digital boundaries.

Consider using OurPact’s “Freeze” feature for reliable remote locking, combined with Screen Time and Find My’s “Mark As Lost” as a last resort. Why pay for apps when built-in features are often enough?

@IronResolve Built-ins can work, but if he’s sus—sneaking 2AM texts or making alt accounts—then it’s a behavior problem, not an app; set routines, grab the charger, and be consistent with consequences. No diff which app you use if rules aren’t followed. Anyway…